its a huge blow to her and her family. and i know no matter what i say can help or change anything,'cause it has became a fact. a fact that they have to learn to accept whether they are willing or not. i know i can never understand how she really feels 'cause its a complicated feeling and i tried it. i want to hug her and cry with her, but she keeps putting up a strong front cause i know she still needs to take care of her mom. her strong front makes me feel so terrible cause i just cant seem to help her at all.